By Laura Lorta There are some conversations that everybody knows you should be having before you get married–where you’d like to live, if and when you’ll start a family, who will be responsible for paying which bills–but there is one topic that never gets discussed:  How will you handle your medical care?  Healthcare isn’t something […]

What is tradition?  The dictionary definition, “the transmission of customs or beliefs from generation to generation”, is a beautiful tribute to history—the passing down of a legacy. That is something to aspire to, assuming that the customs of the generations before you are ones that you wish to pass down. But what about when they […]

5 steps to create a playground for open expression, juicy sex, and greater intimacy By Mary Kubeck “Is that even possible?” my client asked with a look of skepticism. I had just told her that the goal in attaining a passionate sex life, was to create a place in her relationship to freely express herself […]

Written by Raizel Weiss Heitzer, MA, NCC, LPC SO YOU’RE GETTING MARRIED? Congratulations! It’s probably the happiest time of your life. Wrapped in an endorphin filled cloud of bliss, you feel more comfortable and closer to your fiancé than you have ever felt with anyone before. But could there be issues hiding behind this bliss? There […]

You smell the scent of your lover and feel a hot moist breath on your neck as your eyes slowly open to sunlight seeping through the curtains that hang over the window.  You feel the fingers of your lover’s hand graze lightly over your thigh and the sensation causes you to quiver in delight. You […]

Three husbands talk about what marriage is really like for men.

It may feel like you’ve failed when your marriage first ends. After all, your intention was to spend the rest of your life with this person. But sometimes, letting a relationship end is the best thing for the two people in it, and it is entirely possible to find love again.

You married the love of your life, surely, but this same person who makes you happier than anyone else in the world has the unique capability of also being the one person who drives you crazier than anyone else. Obviously, you can’t talk to your spouse about how crazy they make you, so it’s natural […]

Renewing your vows is a way to be closer to your spouse and here are 4 reasons why you should start planning your 2021 commitment ceremony.